Topic: How not to get annoyed???

[Emilee]

salaam sisters and brothers.. :-P

as u can tell from the title, i am annoyed. :|
and what do ypou do in such situations, and how do you react??how to avoid getting upset???
and how do you prevent it... :|


lets share :-D...

[princess123]

wa^alaykumu ssalaam

sis we all get like that at times, we get angry, upset, frustrated ....

you have to be patient for the sake of Allah, being angry will not help you will it? chances are you will just make your self more upset and will not get what you need to get done.
We need to learn from the example of our beloved Prophet sallalahu ^alayhi wassalam, how patient was he with people who disbelieved in him and trued what they could to make life difficult for him. What better example for us to follow!
Try to distract yourself with other things, learn the religion and you will see the importance of being patient. Family ties for example are very important and we should not sever them in any case


 :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-)

[Emilee]

agreed sis  :oops:

but its soo hard its like i have a mass of swelling ocean inside..
like when you eat chillli, and you have to breath loud  :| :lol:


but I used to be much angrier before, and now I am learning to control myself verry slowly soubhanAllah  :|

thank you for advice sis, yes its s great idea to reflect the Prophet;s examples.. :-)

[suha]

i cant agreee more we HAVE  to have patients

[Hadi]

I would go this way...

what gets me annoyed? and how frequent i get annoyed??

Can i avoid it, should i...?

But i have sew words, those words solve most of my problems...

La hawla wala Quwwata Illa Bil Allah
?? ? ?? ??

[Hadi]

wa^alaykumu ssalaam

sis we all get like that at times, we get angry, upset, frustrated ....

you have to be patient for the sake of Allah, being angry will not help you will it? chances are you will just make your self more upset and will not get what you need to get done.
We need to learn from the example of our beloved Prophet sallalahu ^alayhi wassalam, how patient was he with people who disbelieved in him and trued what they could to make life difficult for him. What better example for us to follow!
Try to distract yourself with other things, learn the religion and you will see the importance of being patient. Family ties for example are very important and we should not sever them in any case


 :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-)

Bash ....I have to admit ....

Excellent post and a wonderful advice

[Hadi]

agreed sis  :oops:

but its soo hard its like i have a mass of swelling ocean inside..
like when you eat chillli, and you have to breath loud  :| :lol:


but I used to be much angrier before, and now I am learning to control myself verry slowly soubhanAllah  :|

thank you for advice sis, yes its s great idea to reflect the Prophet;s examples.. :-)

Sis, focus the anger engery to something positive, how? you should answer that

[princess123]

But i have sew words, those words solve most of my problems...

La hawla wala Quwwata Illa Bil Allah
?? ? ?? ??

masha'Allah  :-) :-)

Bash ....I have to admit ....

Excellent post and a wonderful advice

baraka-llaahu fika bro, thankyou, i hope it helps our beloved sister

Sis, focus the anger engery to something positive, how? you should answer that

Yes indeed channel your energies to something more positive and try and eliminate such bad feelings you have

[Emilee]

agreed sis mashAllah nice advice and post. :wink:


yes brother, i am trying to figure out what is my tactic to calm myself when i am annoyed

[princess123]

Keep trying sis....... treat it as a trial and error thing  :wink:

Insha'Allah you will find a way to stay calm and be patient, all for the sake of Allah

may Allah bless you and ease things for you and us all