Topic: looking for a reverted(converted to islam) woman for marriage inch'Allah

[muslim_heart]

Essalam aleykoum wa rahmatou Allah!
I'm sending this message in order to find a reverted woman for marriage inch'Allah!
I hope that someone can help me in my search after asking help from Allah!
why I am seeking for a reverted woman?!!
 
well! I do believe that Allah loves the reverted persons, otherwise He would never show and guide them to Islam, and I really want to be with a converted woman, hoping from Allah that He will love me for being with this  converted woman.
 
I want to help my future wife to know and learn arabic, that she will be able to read the Qur'an Insh'Allah, and I'm seeking for the <<acceptance>> of Allah and His Paradise for doing this to my wife.
 
I  see that those who became muslims, are more interested about Islam than <<some>> other muslims who were muslims all their life, and I want to be with a woman who is her first interest, is  Islam.
 
 
 
Iam a muslim man from ...Algeria, I am 25 years old...
I Love Allah and His Messenger, and Islam is my life, that all I can say for now..
I speak english, frensh and of course arabic wery well alhamdoulillah.
salam Allahi aleykoum, wa jazakoum Allahou kheyrann!!

[samsparky]

wa 3alaikom assalaam wa RaHmatullaahi wa Barakaatuh

welcome to the forum.

I have 3 points:

1) When you want to say "ridallaah" say the acceptance of Allaah not the pleasure of Allaah. Pleasure is something of the creations not the Creator.

2) Allaah loves (accepts) all the Muslims. The more years a person is Muslim, the better.

3) We say the person converted to Islam. The baby who is born to Muslim parents is Muslim but the baby who is born to non-Muslim parents is said to be ready to accept anything that the parents teach them.

It's inaccurate to say revert about a convert.

Please take the time to look through this beneficial forum.

[suha]

welcome brother muslim heart hope you benefit heaps and heaps from this amazing forum..and i hope you find the right person insha'Allah which is on the right path...

salam

[samdeen06]

Insha'Allah brother i pray u find somebody here to be your life partner one day.

[Protoculture]

I do believe that Allah loves the reverted persons, otherwise He would never show and guide them to Islam, and I really want to be with a converted woman, hoping from Allah that He will love me for being with this  converted woman.

Dear Brother, you have a sincere wish. May Allah granted that .....
 

I want to help my future wife to know and learn arabic, that she will be able to read the Qur'an Insh'Allah, and I'm seeking for the <<acceptance>> of Allah and His Paradise for doing this to my wife.

Alhamdulillah, you should lead by becoming the living example of how model Muslim husband leads a family.

I  see that those who became muslims, are more interested about Islam than <<some>> other muslims who were muslims all their life, and I want to be with a woman who is her first interest, is  Islam.

However Brother, are you confident enough to find such newly dedicated converted Muslim woman, listen to her needs & wants, preparing to adjust with married life together with someone who do have a single clue of your language, culture, familial values?

Do you have what it takes in leading a newly converted Muslim woman without going astray? Do you have the greatest asset - namely - patience to handle any particular identity / cultural / language crisis? How would your family reacts to your decision? All these takes into accounts of decision that you may make ....
 
May Allah bless you in your quest for finding a pious wife,

Wassalam

[islam1973]

Wa alaykum asalaam,

I beleive that someone should marry reverted muslimas who live in a non muslim country. I almost consider it as a priority for a muslim who lives also in a non muslim country, and may Allah (swt) rewards him the double. On the other hand, I agree with Protoculture in the sense that muslims who were born and live in a muslim country should probably seek by there, knowing that the culture/language could be a kinda of communication problem. Beside of this, I guess that many muslimas don't trust anymore applicants who are not citizens or residents in their country, knowing I've hear some stories about guys who split away after getting the resident status   :-o

Salaam

[samsparky]

Very true

Good analysis.

[Protoculture]

Wa alaykum asalaam,

I beleive that someone should marry reverted muslimas who live in a non muslim country. I almost consider it as a priority for a muslim who lives also in a non muslim country, and may Allah (swt) rewards him the double. On the other hand, I agree with Protoculture in the sense that muslims who were born and live in a muslim country should probably seek by there, knowing that the culture/language could be a kinda of communication problem. Beside of this, I guess that many muslimas don't trust anymore applicants who are not citizens or residents in their country, knowing I've hear some stories about guys who split away after getting the resident status   :-o

Salaam

Assalamualaikum,

The real crux of the problem most often comes from the Muslim males that married new reverted Muslim sisters.

These guys do not lived the way of Islam, most often Westernised ... or shall we say, Islam in name only. They often urged their non-Muslim females companion to convert to Islam for marriage purposes, after such marriages, they failed to become a model Muslim husbands to their newly converted wives. They continue their ignorant lifestyle that later will influenced their offsprings.

These are the people who label themselves liberal Muslims, whose idea is Islam is at home or only for marriage ceremonies & death burial.

If a Muslim male really want to marry newly converted Muslimah, the male MUST have a strong Iman & a good foundation in Islamic knowledge.

Wassalam

[silkworm]

I remember a friend of a friend of mine (here in Chicago) met an Arab lady on internet, after some time they got married.This guy was from India and the girl was from Jordan, anyways like you said, this guy was only a Moslem by name and hardly ever prayed, while this girl was a total opposite, even in america she was living a very Moslem life, anyways they both faced a problem and after six months this marriage was on the verge of collapse.

But the girl was very much in love with this man and vice verse, so scared by this situation some frineds intervened and did a bit of "marriage councelling" to this couple. The Problems persisted for some more months, after that the guy (with Allah's will) fell head over heals in Islam, and since then they are living in peace and are inseparable.

I guess the LOVE TAMED THE DEVIL???       

[Protoculture]

Assalamualaikum silkworkm,

Surely your story has its relevance here. But then again, the couple are borne-Muslims.

What actually we're looking at is wayward liberal Muslim men who mislead newly converted Muslimah as their wives & do not carry out their duties as Muslims themselves. These incidents always led to most marriages to break up, & some converted Muslimah returned back to their original religion, most often accusing the Muslim ex-husbands & Islam itself.

Who're to be blame? The newly-converted Muslim sisters wgo Iman is not really strong, or wayward Muslim men who failed their husbandly duty to teach their spouse to become proper Muslim with the men leading the best role-model?

My sincere answer, the Muslim-in-name-only guys out there. Their failure costed us as an ummah!

Wassalam.