Topic: married man searching for a second wife

[Martin]

when sayiduna mouhammad took another !,  right away they had accepted that without brokin hearts or something ...

How do you know about that crescent of the Moon? it's sure they didn't make a scene out of it. I once heard that ^aisha used to be jealous even from Khadija who was dead when the prophet married ^aisha. Women have feelings. I'm sure they accepted it for the sake of Allah, but how do you know they didn't get sad?

so who are our sisters and our wives in front of the wives of sayiduna mouhammad aliehi al salatu wa salam ? , they are better than our sisters and our wives ! so we should take heed of them as we take heed of sayiduna mouhammad aliehi al salatu wa salam ! sah ?

i think this answer might feed your questions !

It is true 100%. but let's not try to oversimplify the matters. Prophet is the prohet. he's perfect. and it was different for him, that he married 9 women. He used to marry for the da^wa sake.
Nowadays, men hike around the downtown, pick on a charming woman walking along the street, and they want to marry her. What about this first wife sitting in the house cleaning, and raising their kids? no feelings for her. they start then saying: oh the prophet and the prophet wives.
When it'll come to your dad wanting to marry a second wife, you come and tell me how you can take it. Can you just imagine how it'll be like?

[CrescentOfTheMoon]

right brother Martin , i got what sister imm mohammad mean and you too ! but sayidatuna 3aecha her jealousy wasn't like the jealousy of these days ( not all wives ) , the jealousy nowadays is hate ! right ?  sayidatuna 3aecha was a waliya and i do Tahcine al zan soubhana'allah, and i don't think that she had converted her jealousy into hate ...
some wives here think so bad of each other so i just tried to encourage our sister to imitate the wives of the racul aliehi al salatu wa salam and not to hate and misunderstand each other or treat each other bad :S ..you know what i mean right ?

[Martin]

I also got what you meant dear crescent. But hey, not too many people do ta7seen al zan like you.
But i also have some "severe" words to nowadays ladies. But i need imm Mohamad with us.
Imm Mohamad, can u hang around again with us for a short discussion?

[CrescentOfTheMoon]

I also got what you meant dear crescent. But hey, not too many people do ta7seen al zan like you.
But i also have some "severe" words to nowadays ladies. But i need imm Mohamad with us.
Imm Mohamad, can u hang around again with us for a short discussion?

Baraka'Allahu bika brother martin ..
khayre insha2'allah ...