Topic: WIFE A BURDEN ON HUSBAND

[aziz.abdulrahman]

thanks mate,

[Sami Yusuf Islam]

i will just like to give my sallam to you all,  please if any body here can make dua for me i will be very grateful.

we all will make douaa for you brother

[imm mohamad]

I was happy that i am not alone
welcome sis.
i don't know is it us or is it marriage this days!!!
i know how a woman should treat her husband and how a man should treat his wife but who is doing it this days!!!
Most men treat their wives as things not persons, some think if you marry her you own her beleive me i know.
i was talking to a person who told me a woman if she work should give her salary to her husband cause this is his time she is working with!!!!!!!!
what if a woman didn't got money she spent her life taking care of children and husband and when she is 50 her husband divorce her? where should she live? what if her children didn't want her to leave with them and this happened all the time!!
i know woman don't have to cook to husband or take care of his children if he can provide someone who will but can anyone tell her husband that!!!
he will divorce her in 5 min!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
even if he knows what she says is true but he will tell her the 3ourouf this days and i don't have to do it!! or even make life ugly to her by treating her badly.
Let's be clear and fair, you know what the islam says but that doesn't means you are doing what islam says!!
you can talk to the wife and heard a story and you can talk to the husband and heard enother story and Allah only knows the truth!!!!