Topic: if you are looking....

[Sami Yusuf Islam]

essalamou alaykom

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you might find what you are looking for !!!!!


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[DAIMON X96]

salamat

wa 3alaykom aassalam brother..

i think it's not a good idea..
coz they are three somthing let man like woman or woman like man..
it's her beautiful ... and if she is a good talker... and if she is a rivh girl...

and i can't imagine my self see woman posting a subjest seeking man ..
and i can't imaginemy self a muslim woman send mail to a person she don't know him and telling in that mail a want to married you ....

i think that will never be a good marrying...

coz the meaning of  married  = love+feeling+understanding and impressing..



i don't know if you got my point coz my english it's not so good and i can't say more than that


have a good day
x96

[Sami Yusuf Islam]

salamat

wa 3alaykom aassalam brother..

i think it's not a good idea..
coz they are three somthing let man like woman or woman like man..
it's her beautiful ... and if she is a good talker... and if she is a rivh girl...

and i can't imagine my self see woman posting a subjest seeking man ..
and i can't imaginemy self a muslim woman send mail to a person she don't know him and telling in that mail a want to married you ....

i think that will never be a good marrying...

coz the meaning of  married  = love+feeling+understanding and impressing..



i don't know if you got my point coz my english it's not so good and i can't say more than that


have a good day
x96

I got your point my bro, but would you allow me to disagree ?

[Muslim_boy]

salamat

wa 3alaykom aassalam brother..

i think it's not a good idea..
coz they are three somthing let man like woman or woman like man..
it's her beautiful ... and if she is a good talker... and if she is a rivh girl...

and i can't imagine my self see woman posting a subjest seeking man ..
and i can't imaginemy self a muslim woman send mail to a person she don't know him and telling in that mail a want to married you ....

i think that will never be a good marrying...

coz the meaning of  married  = love+feeling+understanding and impressing..



i don't know if you got my point coz my english it's not so good and i can't say more than that


have a good day
x96

I got your point my bro, but would you allow me to disagree ?

As-Salamu`alaykum brother Abdullah,

       I hope you don't mind me asking but are you about to disagree with brother Daimon because in Islam the love+feeling+understanding each other can be adapted after marriage? Brother Abdullah,what if we still dont get the love+feeling+understanding each other after the marriage and if we found out that we are not really suitable with each other, won't it lead to divorce? The problem is that in my country I heard that the amount of money needed for divorce is quite high or something like that because our law do not recommend us to divorce but instead to love each other more  rolleyes (I'm not really sure about this one because it's only what I've heard). Anyway, here's a link to what requires in order to get a divorce in my country -removed- ...have to go to court and all and give reasons...sounds kinda complicated.. Do you think it's a little different from the real Islamic law? I'm not very sure because I'm only 17 rolleyes , teach me please. Thank you

[Sami Yusuf Islam]

Anyway, here's a link to what requires in order to get a divorce in my country http://www.lawyerment.com.my/family/divorce.shtml ...have to go to court and all and give reasons...sounds kinda complicated.. Do you think it's a little different from the real Islamic law? I'm not very sure because I'm only 17 rolleyes , teach me please. Thank you

wa alaykom essalam my bro

this law is not at all in line with islamic law

you do not in islam have to provide all of those reasons

it is enough to say I am convinced everyone in this couple would be better off to continue his life with someone else.

[Sami Yusuf Islam]

Anyway, here's a link to what requires in order to get a divorce in my country http://www.lawyerment.com.my/family/divorce.shtml ...have to go to court and all and give reasons...sounds kinda complicated.. Do you think it's a little different from the real Islamic law? I'm not very sure because I'm only 17 rolleyes , teach me please. Thank you

wa alaykom essalam my bro

this law is not at all in line with islamic law

you do not in islam have to provide all of those reasons

it is enough to say I am convinced everyone in this couple would be better off to continue his life with someone else.

[Muslim_boy]

Anyway, here's a link to what requires in order to get a divorce in my country http://www.lawyerment.com.my/family/divorce.shtml ...have to go to court and all and give reasons...sounds kinda complicated.. Do you think it's a little different from the real Islamic law? I'm not very sure because I'm only 17 rolleyes , teach me please. Thank you

wa alaykom essalam my bro

this law is not at all in line with islamic law

you do not in islam have to provide all of those reasons

it is enough to say I am convinced everyone in this couple would be better off to continue his life with someone else.

Forgive me Brother Abdullah, but I may have given you the link to the divorce law for non-muslims in my country. Here is a law for marriage and divorce for muslims in my country

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 (I have put it in a small file so that you can download it ). Have a look at it. It still involves going to court I guess. Divorce law for husband is written under the title Talaq. What do you think? Does it follow the exact Islam rules or have some minor differences? My country Is an Islamic country by the way.

[Sami Yusuf Islam]

please brother do not post links to files.........

[Muslim_boy]

please brother do not post links to files.........

Masha'allah brother Abdullah I did not know. Sorry for that. Anyway, refering to my previous post, here is a link to it instead of a file http://www.law.emory.edu/IFL/index2.html but you might have to click on legal --> Malaysia --> and scroll down to the marriage section under "notable features" title. Thank you, please teach me for I am lack of knowledge.

May Allah bless your body and soul in this life and Hereafter.

[Sami Yusuf Islam]

May Allah bless your body and soul in this life and Hereafter.

thank you my brother for this very touching prayer in my favor


you are so kind.

 :bh1