BarakAllahu feekum.. this is an important topic to discuss, as so many are shy to ask questions relating to sexual relations.
I have a question...
In regards to masturbation.. is it considered haram only if the person seeks to ejaculate from the masturbation, or is it haram to touch ones private area, or play with it oneself in any way.. even if they do not intend to ejaculate?
Also.. we know that to penetrate the anus is haram... but do you know about one inserting the finger into the anus? i.e. the husband inserting his finger into the anus of his wife.
JazakAllahu khayran.
may Allah bless you and reward you for those very courageous questions.
I asked those questions before and got this answer:
husband inserting his finger to his wife's anus, not haram, but he should not touch the bowl (the feces) .....
and
masturbation is haram even if he or she did not reach ejaculation.
e.g. if he or she excites himself or herself by touching with his or her fingers or with a vibrator, then yes, this is haram, even if he or she stops before ejaculation.
now bear in mind this is self-masturbation that we are talking about.
If a wife plays, strokes, touches, kisses the penis of her husband, this is very OK , even if he ejaculates
the same way, if a man touches, strokes, fundles, moves, excites the hunny-bunny of his wife, that is also OK even if she ejaculates.
So the masturbation that we were talking about earlier was self-masturbation.....
