Well when I came here 5 years ago, I was put off and didn't come back until now because I found the whole atmospehere here very wierd with people talking in a sickly sweet manner to each other and praising and patting each other on the back - but there were no real meanigful discussions or real difference of opinion.
OK, why did not you yourself start a true debate over any subject you wish?
I wish you did.....
The whole forum seemed to be very controlled
no, this is not the correct choice of words.
you may say that the whole moderation team then was one color. I can't deny that.
and rather than allowing free discussion - it was either you agree with what you and a couple of other posters say - or your ingnorant or wicked.
.... this rips my heart. I am terribly disappointed by such behaviour.
I many times gave clear directions to the moderators to allow as much as possible debates, as this is at the end of the day what the whole idea of forums is about..
I don't pretend I myself did not at times commit some errors in this regard.....
Please accept my apologies for any harm done.
People come to a forum like this to discuss and debate - not to be preached to in a condascending manner.
this is the keyword..... I thank you for saying that.
you are perfectly right and I agree with you
That was the impression I got 5 years ago.
Thank you for talking about it.
Now that you have said this clearly, may I ask you for advice to improve?
We recently cancelled all of the previous bans, most of the restrictions, allowed higher level contacts, and private messages, direct contact through instant messaging systems, and even went further to allow public display of personal data such as email address and more for those who wish to do so.
We even opened to the huge public the door to the moderation team.
Still the answer was far less than expected.
What is missing?
Now that I have come back I find the place dead - and I can only think that if others got the same feeling then no wonder.
it is not dead, it is just lazy.
I reckon some shortcomings, yet if you check professional tools such as alexa, we are not far from umma's stats. After all, forums are only a sector of our site's activity.....