Topic: lonely?...

[cd]

.anyone else here feeling that in their life?. i mean i have SO MANY friends, but i still feel lonely sometimes...well a lot latley. and i'm not sure what the root of it is. perhaps because i dont like change and im moving and obviously things are going to change, but i just wish i could let things roll of my back and just be cool all the time and not have this feeling in my gut. anyone else feeling lonely?...

[RiRiRi]

  well not exactly feeling lonely down this end  but ...we can have so many friends yet we

do need time to reflect on ourselves ...if you are constantly surrounded

by friends and then you part for a short while of course you will miss that

crowd and fee lonely  but then being alone for a while helps you reflect on yourself

makes you think about things and dont worry cd change is a good thing !!!!!

yes you are moving so try not to be sad just let the good times overweigh

 the bad times ...when you part from your friends it makes you

appreciate them more whilst you were with them you didnt think about it

at all but then when you are away from them you begin to realise

everything ....and smile cd      

you are not alone ...your at tai so im sure everyone has already given you a big welcoming

[cd]

I use to appreciate my home .my friends... But I'm not sure if this was consequence of being so closed in myself and not share my feelings with others... I keep telling myself that I like it like this, but its like u have a close friend with u all the time and suddenly he stabs you and makes it hurt really bad... and the next day he's just friendly again ... its silent and peaceful... until the next stab... then i think : im moving so why should i have many friends ..why should i talk to him any more
it is like having a fish in the c ..<<1>>

[Servant of Islam]

anyone else here feeling that in their life?.

When I first read these words, I copied the link and gave it to my friend, we were talking about this feeling we had 2 weeks ago...

i mean i have SO MANY friends, but i still feel lonely sometimes...

That could have many many explinations...

For example, you don't be yourself with your friends, your friends doesn't understand you and your feelings, thoughts and plans, you haven't found the right true friend that you need...

One may be surrounded by 1000 persons, and still feel lonely, and one may have 1 person around, just one, but capable of changing his whole life....

its like u have a close friend with u all the time and suddenly he stabs you and makes it hurt really bad

It hurts really bad, indeed.... I wish I didn't have to remind this tonight....

... then i think : im moving so why should i have many friends ..why should i talk to him any more

For me cd, when someone stabs me in the back and then tries to be friendy again, I talk to him, but I know that he won't be the same person for me again...

Why stil having friends? Because if someone made a mistake or was unfair, this doesn't mean that everybody gonna do the same thing... If i thought in the same way, it'll be really hard to start trusting some people again...

[Sahar]

anyone else here feeling that in their life?. i mean i have SO MANY friends, but i still feel lonely sometimes...well a lot latley. and i'm not sure what the root of it is. perhaps because i dont like change and im moving and obviously things are going to change, but i just wish i could let things roll of my back and just be cool all the time and not have this feeling in my gut. anyone else feeling lonely?....

sometimes, I feel sad and lonely. i think everybody feel that occasionally. but this feeling never stay for long alhamdoliluh. when i talk with my friend, I always feel better. for example, we may not find a soluation for the problem which made me sad but i still feel much better because I know she feels my pain and cares for me for the sake of Allah.
subhana Allah, a true friend is a blessing from Allah.

[Sahar]

For me cd, when someone stabs me in the back and then tries to be friendy again, I talk to him, but I know that he won't be the same person for me again... ...

Why stil having friends? Because if someone made a mistake or was unfair, this doesn't mean that everybody gonna do the same thing... If i thought in the same way, it'll be really hard to start trusting some people again...

u remind me of something i read.
"the friendship that can come to an end never really began"

[cd]

thx for replying ..i think the problem is that ther is no friend  who can be u or me 100% ..

[RiRiRi]

One may be surrounded by 1000 persons, and still feel lonely, and one may have 1 person around, just one, but capable of changing his whole life....

This is comment is so true it really is servant of Islam ,subhaan'Allah I

can relate to this ,

rose90

"the friendship that can come to an end never really began"

Now this comment really gets you thinking and generally its true .......friendships seem to end over silly things ....people hold on to grudges and the like usually subhaan'Allah friends are not always perfect we all have our negative sides  ...and if your friend does something to upset you maybe usually its an uttered word said then forgive that person for the sake of Allah my friend was so patient with me ..... and even thou that friend maybe not be with me , that friend always makes me smile no  matter where i might be

so CD your friend or friends are out there, im sure you wil meet that friend one day patience is a nice virtue to have as i have learnt from my very own friend

rose90

[Sumayya]

.......friendships seem to end over silly things ....

Some friedships... Indeed.... I remember those 2 girls who didn't want to talk to me because I didn't want to tell them something private about me...

What hurts me is that how I thought they were real friends... But that does not mean that real friends don't exist... They do exist...And I have the proof

[shariqanis]

My dear Friend
Assalam-o-alaikum
As you wrote you feel very lonely some times so can u please let me know about your where abouts to make you feelings understand easily I mean I can make solve your problem if you will try to forward with me just the sake of Allah Inshallah I have so many friends in the world just like you and now they are feeling far better then the first day.
For your king iformation iam a civil engineer and also a little web designer and talking here in this forum only to provide satisfactions for those who want to feel relax in his or her life .
Thanks
Azhar