Bismillaah walhamdu lillaah waSSalaatu wassalaamu ^ala rasoulillaah.
The prophet Mouhammad Salla Allahu ^alayhi wa sallam said what means:
Everyone of you is a shepherd, and every shepherd is responsible of his herd.
Narrated by Bukhary 2594. Ahmad 5287, Tirmithy 1806, and many others.
THUS, we on TalkAboutIslam have a policy of protecting our beloved young brothers and sisters, and thus we do not allow the following:
1. Links to illegal, porno, sex, gambling, wahhabiyyah, other sects sites.
2. Absolutely Off-topic posts that bring no benefit whatsoever to the topic.
3. Posts and topics that only seek to advertise for another site or forum.
4. Plain copy-pastes, especially those many-page-ones. On a forum, you write your own views, not those of the one you copied and are pasting here. Copy-pastes kill the discussion as no one would read your many-page paste….
5. Any unacceptable language no matter what culture or ethnic background you are coming from.
6. This list is not exclusive and we trust your intelligence and common sense to realize what we allow on our forums and what we do not.
Those are our rules, and you are kindly asked to observe those. If you fail to do so, don't blame but yourself if your posts are deleted……
If you want to be read and answered, our advice to you is the following:
1. Be respectful (don't step on other guys toes)
2. Be scientific (don't call this or that names, but rather bring scientific proof from the Quran and the Hadith on the issue you are discussing. Tell us which Imam, in which book, said what. Your personal opinion does have its place, but not when calling things Halal or Haram, legal or illegal in Islamic jurisprudence)
3. Be convincing AND polite (don't push for your ideas, but rather introduce them softly keeping in mind that you might be wrong…..)
4. Be brief (very few people would ever bother to read long posts. Be brief and you are better and more read)
5. Be concise (don't spend half an hour beating around the bush, just go to the heart of your issue directly.)
6. Be wise (think…… before you push the submit button.. )
Finally, the prophet Mouhammad Salla Allahu ^alayhi wa sallam said what means:
Respect the conditions of other muslims… (like our conditions to use our forums, and what goes, what does not…)
Narrated by Al Bayhaqiyy 11762, Al DaraqouTniyy 2932, Malik in the MouwaTTa2 1447, and many others.