Topic: "Would you marry me?"

[Asad_Cool]

Certain situations from the last year made me think about this thread lately and dear Servant of Islam's original question.

Subhan Allah sometimes you might find yourself in a situation that was originally a friendship on both parts but then... the other person develops feelings. The situation means that usually both sides are upset, but in a way I think it might be even harder for the person who refused (U) .. they might spend many days and months even  :cry: because they know there are feelings there but you do not want to marry that person.

Then time passes by and maybe you'll lose contact altogether because it is difficult for the other side to accept that that is it, that nothing is going to happen in terms of spending your life together. Even a long time after like 6 months and even if they are thousands of miles away it still hurts but just remember habibty that you will learn from it insha' Allah.

Dear servant, to have this happen not just once, but you feel it happening again, is very hard, believe me I know where you are coming from, :utp1  :kiss02 . You can feel the friendship slowly beginning to grow... (T)  (C)  :utp1     but then the next day there is such a change and you wonder what has happened :oops: and hope that one day it will be the same between you two... :be2  ..  to be honest with you I do not know but what I do know is that when there are feelings involved the situation becomes a lot more complicated - like from our dear sister RiRiRi's story and from many others..

for now I hope that a year on you have the friendship back like it was, or that there was a happy ending either way,

your sis

ndya
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rose11

ROFLMTO

Way to bring back a year old topic. I salute you, Ma'am.

[Sami Yusuf Islam]

please do explain, many of our members may not know what ROFLMTO - Rolling On Floor Laughing My Tail Off means.........