Topic: Working Wives,is It Wrong To Ask Husband To Share Household

[princess123]

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[shonasi]

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[princess123]

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[silkworm]

Since our religion Islam hold women and their right on high priority, I think It is well enough for the husband to share.

Male chauvanism, most of the time blocks this thought but if we take it like wife and husband love each other and are serious to raise a family and due to some mishap the husband looses his job and wife have to support the family, whats wrong with taking care of your family.

Although this is husbands' reponsibility to win bread for the family, but like I said that in case of mishap, this should be considered as paying your due share. 

[Rahma_Attia]

Khadija used to be a trader. She is said to have been wealthy, so likely she did not need to work for financial reasons. She was known to be intelligent and confident, and so her need for mental challenge and lively interaction with other people could have been at the heart of her decision to lead an active life outside of the home.
Women and men are not that different. A woman can easily become bored if she is made to stay at home day after day for the rest of her adult years, raising children and not expanding much her knowledge of the outside world and her skills as a thinker. The home should not be a prison that limits a person's life intellectually and physically, and if the person is particularly talented with a career already in progress, a marriage to an unsympathetic man could cause her to become frustrated, unhappy and even mentally ill. I know how I feel after I've taken a week off work because of illness: I get bored and depressed with the mundane activities of housework and a limited environment. If women are not given equal opportunities in the workplace, they can view work outside of the home in a negative manner and then be forced to stay at home due to no real opportunities to contribute to the greater society. Women can contribute to society in so many ways, not just by producing more babies for society. History is testimony to the great things that women can achieve through medicine, chemistry, the arts, law, education. Decisions about women's lives have to involve women.

[malaika2012]

Well,I thought it could be 50/50 in the household,it makes things alot easier.Yes,the Qur'an mentions that the sisters can keep all her money and don't have to share it,and the brothers have to provide.But,I'd like to think that I can help out if I have it 

[princess123]

Welcome malaika to our forums

[malaika2012]

Thank you much,glad to join

[princess123]

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