Can anyone provide an answer to this big question?
I have been told that a woman (or man) who commits blasphemy while married, breaks her (his) marriage contract. What if this happens three times or more during the marriage? Is this considered as if the man divorced his wife three times?
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Ans: Case#1. "As a reult of apostasy, the apostate invalidates marriage before the marital consummation,"
Explanation: If two people were married, and before the first sexual intercourse took place between them (meaning here they never had first intercourse after getting married), one of the two committed apostasy, then their marriage contract is invalidated. If they want to join together again in marriage, they need to conduct a new marriage contract after the one who has committed apostasy returns to Islam.
Case #2. "and marriage after the marital consummation if one did not return to Islam within the (wife's) post-marital waiting period (^iddah)."
Explanation: The post-marital waiting period (^iddah) is the period the woman must wait before she is allowed to get married again. The divorced woman’s ^iddah is three (3) non-bleeding intervals. The pregnant woman’s’ waiting period (^iddah) ends when her pregnancy terminates—either by delivery, miscarriage, or otherwise.
After the marriage is consummated, i.e., the first sexual intercourse between two married people has taken place, if one of the two spouses apostatizes, the marriage contract is breached. This means that the two are no longer married. If the apostate does not return to Islam until after the post-marital waiting period has lapsed, then to re-marry, they need to conduct a new marriage contract. However, if the one who apostatized returned to Islam within the ^iddah, they would not need a new marriage contract. They would still be husband and wife based on the first contract.
Note: It doesn't not say it is a divorce if one commits apostasy. I never heard it is a divorce. All I know is that it is not consider a divorce.