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Asalaamu ^Alaykum

I am a revert for six years now I married in 99 to another revert it was arranged in a way after I married him I found he was influenced by shia and also had many deviated habits.   :woops I remained with him for 3 years but then he divorced me and kicked me out, he is now seeing a woman who is not even ahl-ul-kitab  :booh .  since I divorced I have been trying to remarry but unfortunately, three times it has not worked out due to the brother not being committed and also one of them turned out to be wahabi, my family are not Muslim and obviously are not going to help me to get married, so I was wondering what is the advice of finding a partner, foolproof advice lol, there is a brother currently interested in me but hes not a UK citizen I am wary of this although he wants to return to Palestine anyway (I always wanted to make al Hijra) I am worried, can anyone offer any advice? I have asked my nearby friends about brothers but unfortunately not many single brothers with right belief are about

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« Reply #1 on: Wednesday 14 May 2003, 05:29 »
HippyGirl you have come to the right place to ask for help and advice.


I know many brothers of Islam, of the right doctrine and belief, whom you might be interested in meeting. They are mostly UK Citizens or simple residents.


I know many..... and any one of them might be simply ....... looking for his life-partner.....


What an honor for me it would be if I help two muslims get together and bring up a good muslim family.


It goes without saying that I am talking about true Sunni Muslim brothers, Not Wahhabis nor Ikhwanis , no any other strange sect....


I am talking here about people I would recommend and I do trust.

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« Reply #2 on: Wednesday 14 May 2003, 13:14 »
Asalaamu ^Alaykum brother Abdullah, Jazak Allah Khayrun and Barak Allahufik for your assistance I have sent you two PMs with regard to this InshaAllah, may Allah ta'ala reward you

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Ma'a  asalaama

Sophie  :sis1

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« Reply #3 on: Thursday 15 May 2003, 01:49 »
ma shaa Allah

Brother ABDULLAH is helping in many ways, but I've never thought that he'll be this helpful. Allah yubarik fik.

ma shaa Allah.

Dear sister Sophie, may Allah give you what you want.

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« Reply #4 on: Thursday 15 May 2003, 14:33 »
May Allah Bless you sister Sophie, Insha' Allah you will find somebody right for you. Keep looking for someone who is on the right path, and who follows Ahlus Sunnah wal jamaa3a , it will make a lot of matters easier within the marriage Insha' Allah.

I hope you find that  :hearts2  special someone  :apl1

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« Reply #5 on: Friday 16 May 2003, 05:02 »
Asalaamu ^Alaykum

InshaAllah ta^ala I would only look for someone who is proper sunni and not any sect or group, I have had a few proposals but turned them down for the reason the brother was not on the correct belief

Ma'asalaama

Sophie  :bg

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« Reply #6 on: Saturday 17 May 2003, 05:47 »
Quote from: HIPPYGIRL
Asalaamu ^Alaykum


wa ^alaykumus salaam wa Rahmatullah

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« Reply #7 on: Wednesday 21 May 2003, 07:13 »
Asaalamu ^Alaykum my brother Abdullah

I sent you another PM regarding this issue, no rush, i have sabr InshaAllah, just reply shortly InshaAllah or let me know if you did not receive it

Ma'asalaama

Sophie  :sis1

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« Reply #8 on: Friday 23 May 2003, 21:43 »
I am sure bro Abdullah did receive your PM's sister, but please be patient because he is a little bit busy these days.

May Allah bless you

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« Reply #9 on: Saturday 24 May 2003, 15:59 »
thank you Hippy Girl and Abdu


I got the PM and replied to it


may Allah bless you

 



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