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Offline Sammy

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My family...
« on: Friday 26 January 2007, 20:17 »
...would never accept the fact that I'm trying to follow the way of Islam..They'd probably just hate me even more.

what should I do..?

Not to mention that I have a tremendous amount of sadness within me that triples itself by the day..

I'm sorry...I should stop whining...

One more question...

is it ok if someone cries at a Mosque? I know it's a weird question, but don't make fun of me---just because I'm
going to cry. I can't help it.

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Re: My family...
« Reply #1 on: Friday 26 January 2007, 22:51 »
May Allaah grant you patience and a high rank in Paradise.

Of course you can cry in the mosque :) It's not like anyone can control it at certain times of hardship.

But don't immerse yourself in your sadness.

Think of the good things too.

alHamdu lillaah you are Muslim.

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Re: My family...
« Reply #2 on: Saturday 27 January 2007, 01:04 »
I try to think positive, but it's hard to do so when everything around me is so negative.

...I just don't know how to control it...and it's getting worse. Anyone can see my sadness, even strangers. I want it to stop...there are people that are in worse conditions
than me...I shouldn't be like this. I should be happy for everything GOD has provided me with.

You know...I wish I could call myself a muslim, but the truth is...I can't...


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Re: My family...
« Reply #3 on: Saturday 27 January 2007, 02:19 »
Where are you dear - which country?

Perhaps you need a good friend.

The beauty of Islaam is that all you need to do to embrace it is say and believe no one is God except Allaah & MuHammad is the Messenger of Allaah.

Then comes the refreshing Islamic Knowledge where in every lesson you will feel happiness and something for you to use to soldier on in life.

Don't give up dear; open your heart and let me help you in shaa' Allaah.

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Re: My family...
« Reply #4 on: Saturday 27 January 2007, 03:17 »
Allah ease things for you

Family can create  a problem for many people, but this is all part of the test, we need to be able to deal with it with patience and for the sake of God.

Seek pious company and busy yourself with learning the religious knowledge and this sadness you feel should lessen, insha'Allah

Let us know if you have any more questions

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Re: My family...
« Reply #5 on: Saturday 27 January 2007, 07:11 »
I live in the united states. I use to be a christian, but I just damaged my faith.

I didn't believe in anything...

Great gratitude to GOD for showing me the way.

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Re: My family...
« Reply #6 on: Saturday 27 January 2007, 07:20 »
I am thankful that Allah sent me this person that guided me...


Thank you all.


I should be happy.  Everytime I pray I am filled with this overwhelming sadness.

I have to stop this, and keep a more postitive outlook.


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Re: My family...
« Reply #7 on: Saturday 27 January 2007, 08:04 »
Allah does what He Wills... always remember this

Sometimes dwelling on things pushes us further into sadness..we have to keep going for the sake of Allah
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Re: My family...
« Reply #8 on: Sunday 28 January 2007, 12:45 »
Alhamdulillah,

   Embracing Islam , you chose the path of all prophets ( Adam ... Nuh... Ibrohim ...  Musa...  Isa..  Muhammad ) .
   
   Islam is the religion of all prophets, all Angels .That is the religion Allah ordered us to embrace.

   Allah created everything, the earth, the skies and the stars we see everyday. And the mercy from Allah is the best prize one could have at all.

   Embracing Islam you can be happy in this world and hereafter. There are a lot of permissible ( halal ) things in this world. Try to enjoy them.

   And sometime it is not easy to be Muslim. Sometime it is so hard like carrying flaming stone. But with help from Allah the outcome is  always good for us .

   It is not the new thing when people surrounding you do not like you just because you are Muslim or you are trying to be God-fearing person. Some of them are arrogant; some of their hearts are blind. Some just want to be superior. And they could not handle the fact that the truth is on your side.

   Try to get to used to it when some people hurt you. Do not do the same in return especially if they are your family mamebers.We should be patient and treat them with kindness. That is the behavior of prophets and great walliys

  Embracing Islam, you joined the best nation brought to the mankind. Allah crated Paradise that is existent now. Paradise is shown to some pious Muslims in their graves .And it was heralded that we (inshallah)  would be awarded with what we never see and never heard, never imagine.

  I felt so happy  for  you embracing Islam ,  my  post happened to be this long this time

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Re: My family...
« Reply #9 on: Monday 29 January 2007, 20:51 »
alhamdulillah

You are all right. I should remain steadfast. Even though I miss my true friend so much

Even though I am alone, and my family doesn't care about me.

My faith grows...I thought I had lost it for good.

Many thanks to you all my brothers, and sisters.

May the Peace,Mercy, and Blessing of Allah be on you

 



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