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Offline sherazad

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« on: Tuesday 18 February 2003, 01:46 »
Assalamoualeikoum,
Dear brothers and sisters,
I am feeling depressed and I need your support. I have the impression that I won't be able to bear all the difficulties I have to go through those days.
Baraka Allah oufeek

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« Reply #1 on: Sunday 23 February 2003, 01:29 »
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Assalamoualeikoum,
Dear brothers and sisters,
I am feeling depressed and I need your support. I have the impression that I won't be able to bear all the difficulties I have to go through those days.
Baraka Allah oufeek

My dear sweet sister sherazad.
when ever i am depressed i say this duaa.
((لا اله الا انت سبحانك انى كنت من الظالمين))
[la Elah ala Ant Sob7ank Anee kontee min alzalimeen]
this was the duaa of prophet Uness ((سيدنا يونس)) may peace be up on him
when he was in the stomach  of the whale.
say it as much as u could and in shaa Allah u will feel better.
Be patient my sister and remember that Allah will reward u for ur patience in shaa Allah.
May Allah help and reward u Sherazed.

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« Reply #2 on: Sunday 23 February 2003, 01:47 »
baraka Allah oufeek dear sister Sahar
It is nice to see somebody who cares

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« Reply #3 on: Sunday 23 February 2003, 03:08 »
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baraka Allah oufeek dear sister Sahar
It is nice to see somebody who cares

ofcourse i care my dear sister Sherazad.
and i believe every other muslim would care.
do not u know what prophet Muhammed may peace and blessing from Allah be upon him said.
"مثل المؤمنين في توادهم وتراحمهم وتعاطفهم مثل الجسد، إذا اشتكى منه عضو تداعى له سائر الجسد بالسهر والحمى".‏
which could mean:
the Muslim believers in their love and care for each other are like one body. when any part of that body is ill, the whole body will suffer from fever and illness.

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« Reply #4 on: Sunday 23 February 2003, 07:21 »
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Assalamoualeikoum,
Dear brothers and sisters,
I am feeling depressed and I need your support. I have the impression that I won't be able to bear all the difficulties I have to go through those days.
Baraka Allah oufeek


wa ^alaykum salaam wa rahmatullah

i Heared from somebody who heared it from a sheykh if you feel sad say 300 times

la hawla wa la quwata illa billah

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« Reply #5 on: Sunday 23 February 2003, 09:06 »
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Assalamoualeikoum,
Dear brothers and sisters,
I am feeling depressed and I need your support. I have the impression that I won't be able to bear all the difficulties I have to go through those days.
Baraka Allah oufeek


Wa^alaykum assalam dear sister

I think that many of us go through such times, when we feel that we can't take it anymore and we're not tough enough to handle the situration.

My advice to you is to stay calm and think wisely how to get out of the situation that is bothering you, don't let depression be a part of your life, you need to be strong my sister and ask Allah to help you.

Depression has a big effect on one's personality, actions, life and other things, and it wont do you any good, try to be optimistic as much as you can and keep in mind that as long as you're obeying Allah and not making anything wrong, you'll be good and rewarded in shaa Allah.

There is an angel who take out the sadness of the hearts of believres, his name is Rata'il ^alayhis-salam, so when you feel sad or depressed, say: Allahumma aghithna bi Rata'il

Plz tell us how you are feeling these days and if your problem is solved yet.

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« Reply #6 on: Sunday 23 February 2003, 11:50 »
Dear sister,

Im sorry to hear that you are going through a rough period in your life right now. I just wanna tell you that no matter how hard things may seem at one point..and how much u wanna give up, be sure that Allah and his angels are with you sweety, to give you strength and to guide you. Be sure that you dont loose your faith, and keep praying to Allah for guidance and for help.

I know its so much more easier  said than done, but sweety beleive me that i have been  through rough times too, and still go through rough times. Because of good help from our friends at Tai and my faith in Allah, i keep manage to go through those times..and even manage to get a smile on my face  :ulv1

Whenever you need a shoulder, or just a smiling face..just send me a message and ill be there for you my sister.

I'll pray for you and ask Allah to lighten your burden.

May his angels guide you and keep you safe my sweet sister....

Love..

Lilie :bh1

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« Reply #7 on: Sunday 23 February 2003, 22:50 »
May Allah reward you all

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« Reply #8 on: Monday 24 February 2003, 07:29 »
dear sherazad.

 we all have problems, and we are not always happy.

 with dou^a and prayers insha'Allah you will feel better.

 how much do we live in earth? 10, 20 ,50 years..? Allah

knows best.

be patient. patients is the key to sucess.

put all of your trust in Allah sobahanahou wa ta'ala.

insha'Allah if Allah wills you will enter paradise and be

happy for ever.

in paradise, you will not feel tired, nor saad.

you will be happy for ever insha'Allah free of worryies.

 think about that ;)

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« Reply #9 on: Monday 24 February 2003, 07:43 »
Asalamualaikum! :hearts2
i do feel for u sister, as we have all have been through sad times. :cwt
have u tried talking to sum1 about ur depression?or have u asked ur self why u are feeling this way?
u should really talk to sum1, maybe u will feel better Inshallah, i think the best way to help urself is by talking to Allah, u will feel a whole lot better Inshallah, also try and pray u will feel content in your heart.
if u are having problems wth ur family talk to them and tell them about ur situation.
moreover  :no2 NEVER feel u r alone, we are ALL here to help u at TAI!



-dear sister, may Allah reward you for helping others.,Ameen.

-sister, do not say :'' talk to Allah''. say; make ''dou^a to Allah''
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