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Offline Aisha9

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« on: Thursday 12 December 2002, 08:06 »
Is it allowed for a 54 years old man to marry a 9 years old girl and to have sexual relations with her?

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« Reply #1 on: Thursday 12 December 2002, 12:34 »
I'd like to address this "questions", although believe me it doesn't have the effect some people wish it would have on Muslims..  First of all , to make everything clear, let's say that we're talking here about Prophet Moh ammad , peace be upon him.  Let me tell you a little about his life.  If you sincerely want to know the truth, then you will learn some important things.  The prophet, was a well-born, extremely handsome man, his family was well known and he was known for his excellent manners.  In spite of all this, at 25, he married a woman who was 15 years older than him, Lady khadijah, who was a respectable business woman.  He spent 25 years with her, and during those 25 years he had never married any other woman.  Get this , if he liked women so much as some people claim, why would he spend the best years of his life with one woman only, who was 15 years older than him.  The first time he got married again was when he was 50 years old, and eventhough he could marry the most beautiful and young girls of the peninsula then, he married divorced women or widows  only, except Aisha (the youngest of his wives, and the only virgin).  Also, he only had sexual intercourse with her when she became pubescent (that's the rule in Islam).  No sexual intercourse with children. Please keep in mind, that only a couple hundred years ago in Europe, in some countries like Britain and France women married at a very very young age. Some of them were pregnant at the age of 10. And that was only 200 years ago ( the average age of death for a woman was 35. At 35 a woman was considered old, and indeed looked old, unlike 35 year olds nowadays).  So imagine 1400 years ago!

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« Reply #2 on: Thursday 12 December 2002, 23:31 »
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