Dear Brothers,
A word of advice from your sister in Islam :lia ....
You wanna make your
wife (wives :lo1) happy??? :bg :bg :bg
:bh1 :bh1 Here is the formula :bh1 :bh1
1. Dress up well for your wife :dancer02 Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good. Brothers when was the last you looked good to please your wives??? Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Prophet Mohammad salla Allahu ^alayhe wa salam would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.
2. Use nick names for your wife :lbw1 Use the cutest names for your wife. Prophet Mohammad salla Allahu ^alayhe wa salam had nicknames for his wives, ones that they loved. For example, he called ^Aa'esha {radeya Allahu ^anha} ^Uwaysh. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt her feelings.
3. Recognize the good & focus on that :apl1 Don't treat her like a fly. We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it 'bugs' us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day - which brings no attention from the husband - until she does something to 'bug' him. Don't treat her like this; recognize all the good that she does and focus on that.
4. Be silent on the wrongs:no2 If you see wrong from your wife (as long as it is not a
sin ), try being silent and do not comment!
5. Smile at your wife 
Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often^Aa'esha ( ^Uwaysh). Smiling is Sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim Ummah. Imagine life constantly smiling for eachother.
6. Thank her :hmp1 Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again! Take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgement she receives is that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Don't let that be; thank her!
7. Make her happy :bt1 Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her happy. Then go and do them again. It may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure. You don't have to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in your life.
8. Comfort her :cwt Don't belittle her desires. Comfort her. Sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives.
9. Be humorous:l2m Be humorous and Play games with your wife. Look at how Prophet Mohammad salla Allahu ^alayhe wa salam would race his wife Aisha {radi Allahu ^anha} in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that :confused:
10. Try to be your best and improve on yourself(Y) Prophet Mohammad salla Allahu ^alayhi wa salam said what means: "The best of you are those who treat their wives the best, and I am the best to my wives." Keep the wise words of the
best of all creation in the back of your mind.
So for the brothers who are married get working, and for the bachelors...keep this in mind :bsf4. Never forget to make supplications (du^a') to Allah subhanahu wa ta^ala to make your marriage successful. And Allah ta^ala knows best !!
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