Ok brother finally oi got your point. i just want to clear my views on certain issue that i why i start a discussion session over it. JAZAKALLAH khair.
Finally i found the best answer for it and sharing specially for full moon
"PROPHET MUHAMMAD (S.A.W) BIRTHDAY IS AN INNOVATION IN ISLAM
The companion ‘Abdullaah Ibn ‘Abbaas, may Allaah be pleased with him, narrated that the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said:
“Five matters result when five things happen: If people break their covenant with Allah, He will send an enemy against them; If they rule by other than the Law of Allah, poverty will spread among them; If they become deceptive in trade, Allaah will deprive them of crops and they will be struck with famine; And if they withhold the payment of Zakaah, they will be struck with drought.” (Tabaraani).
In another narration Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said:
“If they break the covenant of Allaah and His Messenger, Allaah will send an external enemy against them who will seize some of their possessions; If they do not rule by the Book of Allaah, nor attempt to implement everything in it, Allaah will spread enmity among them." (Tabaraani)
These celebrations are usually held on the twelveth of Rabee’ Al-Awwal of every year. According to Islam, these are misguided innovations. It is forbidden for any Muslim to participate in these celebrations for the following reasons:
The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam never celebrated during his lifetime, nor did his companions after his death.
Allah says:
“[He] who has created death and life to test you [as to] which of you is best in deed …” (Al-Mulk: 2)
The “best in deed” means the most sincere and correct, for example if the deed was sincere and the action is incorrect, then it will not be accepted. Similarly, if the action is correct but insincere in intention, then also it will not be accepted. The correct deed is the one which coincides with the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam and is performed purely for the sake of Allah.
As Allah says:
“…whoever hopes for the meeting with his Lord, let him do righteous deeds and not associate in the worship of his Lord anyone.” (Al-Kahf: 110).
Aa’ishah, may Allaah be pleased with her, narrated that the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said:
“He who performs any deed which is not according to what we are upon (i.e., the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam and his companions) then it is rejected.” (Muslim).
This event has no firm historical foundation with regard to the exact date on which it occurred. The books of history have narrated vast differences between the scholars of Islaam regarding the birth-date of the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam. They cannot agree on whether it was on the second, eighth, tenth, twelveth, seventeenth or twenty-second of this month. Also, there is no evidence which makes any of these opinions more correct than others.
Those who celebrate Al-Mawlid are partial to astronomical calculations.
From accurate historical sources we know that Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam was born on a Monday.
Therefore, astronomical calculation show that Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam was born on either the second, ninth, sixteenth or the twenty-third of Rabee’ Al-Awwal, which is not the twelfth as they claim.
The fact that there is such controversy regarding this date is irrefutable proof that neither the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam nor his companions, ever gave any importance to this event whatsoever when it came every year.
We know for sure that the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam died on the twelveth of Rabee’ Al-Awwal in the eleventh Hijri year. Therefore, surely this makes that day worthier of sadness than happiness?
Celebrating birthdays is a Christian tradition.
The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said: “He who resembles a people is from them”. It is the Christians who initiated the celebration of birthdays and this custom was adopted by the Muslims when their adherence to Islam became weak and resembling the disbelievers became widespread among them.
These festivals involve many prohibitions even lead to Kufr. For example the poems recited, here are some of its verses which refer to the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam:
“You are the most honourable of all creation
I have none but you to resort to when adversities befall me
From your generosity you have provided this world and the Hereafter
Your know what is in the preserved tablet and you know the divine decree” ASTAGFIRULLAH!
The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said, as narrated by ‘Umar ibn Al-Khattaab, may Allaah be pleased with him:
“Do not exaggerate in praising me like the Christians have praised ‘Eesaa Ibn Maryam (Jesus son of Mary). I am but a slave, so call me the slave of Allaah and His Messenger.” (Bukhaari & Muslim).
Every innovation removes a Sunnah - and the innovation of Al-Mawlid has removed much of the Sunnah. Those who celebrate Al-Mawlid think that by doing so, they have fulfilled their duty towards the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam.
If you really want to show love to Prophet sallallaahu alaihi wa sallam then obey him and forbid what he forbade.
As Allah says:
"... And whatsoever the Messenger (Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) gives you, take it and whatsoever he forbids you, abstain from it, and fear Allah. Verily, Allah is Severe in punishment." (Al Hashr: 7)
However, you find many of them, after celebrating Al-Mawlid abandoning prayers, committing sins and prohibitions and abandoning their real obligations towards the Messenger sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam.
O Muslims! The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam has rights upon his nation. Therefore we should express our gratitude to him for the effort he used in conveying Allaah's message to us. He was merciful and compassionate towards the believers, just as Allaah described him to be. Through him, Allah unsealed and unlocked people’s hearts and opened the ears which were previously deaf to guidance.
Allah says:
“Just as [other bounties] We have sent among you a messenger from yourselves reciting to you Our verses and purifying you and teaching you the Book and wisdom [i.e., the Sunnah] and teaching you that which you did not know.” (Al-Baqarah: 151).
Also, Prophet Muhammad sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam was the most truthful and trustworthy person ever, even his enemies, the tribe of Quraysh, confirmed to this when one of them said to Heraclius, the Roman Ruler: "We have never experienced him to lie"
Heraclius replied: "If he does not lie to people, then he would never lie about Allaah."
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